Among the Righteous, on the passing of Marian Bereska

IMG_6326I can’t let 2015 fade into the night without making mention of a remarkable man who passed away in a little town in central Poland on December 20, the day before the winter solstice.

I had the privilege of meeting Marian Bereska first in 2009, when he finally was willing to tell his story of how he and is mother Janina together hid five Jews from the Radomsko ghetto in their little house.

(Below: Janina Bereska with young Marian)

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For seventy years, he’d kept this story to himself. He hadn’t told his wife, his children, or any of his neighbors or friends in the town where he’d lived his entire life. In the postwar years, under Communism, secrecy about the past had become a habit. For a while it appeared that Marian Bereska would carry his secret to the grave.

IMG_6327 I will always remember that remarkable winter day in an empty hotel dining room in Radomsko, with snow falling outside the windows– when Marian met with me, his grandson Szymon (who helped persuade his grandfather that it was safe now to tell his story), my journalist friend Maciej Ziembinski, and my translator Tomasz Cebulski, to tell us his story, even sketching out the dimensions of the bunker in my little black notebook—the trapdoor in the kitchen, the second door to the potato cellar. His mother Janina was a young widow with young children (Marian was eight). They hid five people—Berek Ofman, his schoolmate Regina Epstein, her parents, and her cousin– in their bunker for two years. Young Marian procured food for the hidden guests, trading linens for bread. They came close to disaster more than once. In occupied Poland, the Nazi’s penalty for anyone found hiding Jews was death for the entire family.

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When I asked Marian why he and his mother had assumed the brutal risks of harboring fugitives during the German occupation, he brushed off my query: the question had no meaning. They saw people who needed their help. They responded.

As we move into the New Year, at a time when so many around the globe and in our communities are on the move seeking safety, shelter, sustenance– it’s worth pausing to think about those like Marian and Janina Bereska who said yes to rescuing strangers, even at grave risk to themselves. Rest in peace, Marian.

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photo: Marian Bereska in 2011, Warsaw, with Leo Ofman, son of Berek Ofman, who was rescued with 4 others by Marian and his mother Janina. This was the day of the ceremony in which Marian received the Medal of the Righteous Among the Nations, from Yad Vashem on behalf of his mother and himself.

6 Responses to “Among the Righteous, on the passing of Marian Bereska”

  1. Loyal Dharma Says:

    Thank you for reminding us – it seems we need that again and again – of the meaning of “mensch”.

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  2. Lawrence Steinman Says:

    Very elegant good by …

    Prof. Lawrence Steinman

    Zimmermann Professor of Pediatrics, Neurology and Neurological Sciences

    Beckman Center for Molecular Medicine

    279 Campus Drive

    Stanford, CA 94305-5316

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  3. Very moving Louise, even knowing the story, it still sends chills up my spine. And I know you had a big part in his receiving the medal, no? A perfect story for the New Year.

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  4. Jack Mayer Says:

    Dear Louise,

    Many thanks for sharing Marian’s story and the photos. I’m glad to begin 2016 with this reminder of, and tribute to the better angels of our nature.

    My best to you for this year and for all you do to repair the world. Jack

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  5. dsklar@danceth.net Says:

    Thank you, Lulu.  These stories help us.love, d

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  6. carolyn harvey Says:

    thank you Louise

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